Adultingš« š«¤
- Oyetola Babarinde

- May 30, 2022
- 2 min read
Hello Guys! Happy new week! Today I just need to vent please. What is this thing we call adulthood?

ššš Stressful!
Some days I donāt know if I need to laugh, cry (I hardly cry, I think I finished my crying capacityš¤§š) or scream at situations I am going through or have been through. Ah! šš. One time you are good next thing, things are falling apart. Why?! I need answers please š©.
Do not get me wrong ok, am I grateful for all I have? Yes! But within that there are plans made and goals set that just seem to get harder to achieve. Just hiccups on the way I know but still frustrating so I will ventš©š.
Let us not forget toxic working environments! Just sucks whatever energy left from youš« but you must still show up everyday with high energy to perform š. I donāt understand.
Letās also not forget money! The ridiculous expenses that pop up. You are minding your business next thing you get a tyre puncture. Some thousand gone.
What do I do to cope? Learnt to let things go. I really canāt control every outcome. I hibernateš« . My favourite thing to do is hibernate. I just be at home all weekend or any chance I get š. I love it. I also talk to loved ones, thatās calming and reassuring in a way for me.
I watched a couple of shows these past few weeks on Showmax. Watching a movie or Series can be calming just to relax. Take we weeks to finish a series because I will always fall asleepš“.
Lately, I have just been considering gym as a way to de-stress. Still considering it š¤§š but I know I am lazy so, wish me luck.
I really hope we all get is right and find an amazing balance. I refuse to accept chaos as a norm š¤§.
How do you come with adulting?
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Have a wonderful week ahead!
With Love,
ĆyĆØtola











Bold of you to think Iām coping šššš Last few weeks of May were the worst! I was hit with a high unexpected bill from the past and I HAD to sort it out. Iāve been so miserable lately and even neglected my only coping mechanism-gym. But Iām feeling good now, Iām hopeful, Iām energized. Iām praying for a better time for us all moving forward. ā„ļø
The way adulting is showing me flames left, right and centre! Cant seem to catch a break
The way Iāve been fighting for my life?! let me know if you find a coping mechanism because mine used to be crying but at this point Iād be crying every single day
Cope? š I thank God for life sha, because I really do not know how I cope or if I even cope with this phase of adulting
Toxic work environments are the worst.